Saturday, October 27, 2012

10 Tips To Start Living NOW

1. Vision Board 

 This is an incredible tool to help you to visualize your future. Find images that represent your ideal life and make a collage using poster-board or another tool.

2. Make A List Of Dreams With Action 


Steps Look at your vision board and make a list of your top five or 10 goals with an action plan for how you can achieve them.


3. Create A Team Of Dreamers 


There is no better motivation than friends or family that support your goals. Tell people who support you about your plans. This will create accountability and keep you motivated and on track.


4. Get Rid Of The Negative Voices 


Oftentimes we are our own worst enemy, so when that negative voice creeps in, tell it: "I hear you, but I won't validate this. This is not truth." Replace each negative statement with one that empowers you.


5. Find People Who Inspire 


You This is important not only to help you to visualize what you want for your life, but also to surround yourself with possibilities. If they can have it, you can too.


6. Affirm 


Affirmations are powerful statements, and the more you say them the more you attract the meaning in the words. Affirm: "I am living my dream life each and every day. I live with purpose, joy and peace of mind and I am grateful."


7. Find An ActivityThat De-Clutters The Mind 


When your brain is constantly on fast-forward, it is impossible to hear your own thoughts. How can you know what you want when you can't hear your own voice?


8. Check Your Adrenal Glands 


Stress can deplete these important glands that help your energy levels, sleep patterns, mood, hormones, cravings and so much more. You may want to try B-vitamins or an adaptogenic herb like ashwagandha or ginseng. Seek out a holistic practitioner who can advise you for your own individual needs.

9. Measure Your Progress Gently 


It is important to set goals and monitor your progress, but don't expect a radical change overnight. Recognize even the small steps you have made.


10. Express Gratitude 


If you cannot recognize the blessings, it is impossible to witness the miracles. Keep a gratitude journal and express gratitude on a daily basis.

Can't Sleep?

Lullabies 

Soothing music before bedtime can really do the trick. A 2005 study found that older people who listened to 45 minutes of soft tunes before hitting the hay reported a 35 percent improvement in their sleep problems.

But it doesn't have to be Brahms, if that's not your style. As long as the music was soft and slow -- around 60 to 80 beats per minute -- it can spur physical changes known to promote sleep, like a slower heart rate and breathing, the BBC reported.

 "We know that when a person closes their eyes they induce a certain frequency of brain waves," says Decker. Slow music may have a similar effect, he surmises, leading to sleep onset.

Flickr photo by Llima 


Warm Milk 


It was once thought that a glass of warm milk at bedtime would help send you off to dreamland because of the tryptophan, The New York Times reported, but milk and other protein-rich foods actually block tryptophan's sleepiness-inducing effects. However, there might still be a psychological benefit to that warm milk, the Times concluded, calling it "as soothing as a favorite old blanket."

"There have been some studies showing that when infants receive warm milk before bed, they'll dream a little bit more," says Decker, but the results don't hold true in adults. "It may be one of those myths that because it happens in children, adults think it may be true for them, too," he explains. However, many adults are actually at least slightly lactose intolerant, he says, meaning a warm mlik at bedtime may just lead to discomfort.

Flickr photo by julianrod 

Counting Sheep 


If your goal is to bore yourself to sleep, you might try counting sheep, or counting backwards by multiples of three or any of a number of other counting-related mind-numbers. But a 2002 study found that imagining a more relaxing scene might be more effective.

The study observed 41 people with insomnia over a number of nights and asked them to try a variety of different sleep-inducing techniques, like counting sheep.

On the nights they were told to imagine relaxing scenes like a beach, a massage or a walk in the woods, they fell asleep an average of 20 minutes sooner than on the nights they were told to count sheep or were given no instructions, Mental Floss reported.

Decker agrees. "Counting sheep in and of itself may not help," but can act as a ritual that prepares us for sleep, making it not unlike meditation. Counting sheep -- or more relaxing guided imagery -- helps us "focus on something other than life's stressors," he says. "Thinking about a soothing environment may be more restful than the way you spent the last eight hours!"

Flickr photo by Kr. B. 


Breathing Exercises 


Focusing on the breath, whether it's as part of a pre-bed yoga sequence or just a tuned-in awareness, can also have meditation-like effects in preparing for bed, says Decker, like lowering the heart rate.

Flickr photo by Perfecto Insecto

Warm Bath 


Your body temp dips about two hours before bedtime, Health magazine reported, a natural change that "triggers our brain for sleep onset", says Decker. Soaking in a warm bath beforehand boosts your temperature temporarily, but results in a dramatic, rapid cooldown after you get out that relaxes you and eases you into sleep.

It's not necessarily the bath that lulls you to sleep, it's that resulting cooling of your body temperature, Decker emphasizes. Research shows that people who take a warm bath before bed not only fall asleep more quickly, but also report better quality of sleep, he says.


Alcohol 


Many people swear by a drink to unwind at the end of the day, but alcohol before bed can actually disrupt your sleep. You'll be more likely to wake up more often in the early-morning hours, wake up and not be to fall back to sleep or have disturbing dreams. "As alcohol is metabolized by the liver, it has a disruptive effect," says Decker. It takes a few hours to metabolize, he says, so a drink with dinner shouldn't be a problem, but anything too close to bedtime can be counterproductive.

Flickr photo by Rob Qld 

Get Out Of Bed 


It sounds crazy -- how will you ever get to sleep if you're not even in bed?! -- but it works, says Decker.

"When a person stays in bed and they can't sleep, the bedroom can induce a certain level of anxiety," he says. "We say after 15 or 20 minutes, get out of bed, sit in another part of the house until you feel a little groggy, then go back to sleep," he says. "Staying in bed can condition you to become anxious in bed."

A small 2011 study published in the Archives of Internal Medicine found that among the adults studied who reported trouble sleeping, those who spent less time in bed had better sleeping habits.

 Flickr photo by Perfecto Insecto